Selena Gomez, often hailed as a ‘rare beauty,’ possesses not only a gifted voice and memorable acting skills but also a romantic history that has captured the attention of many. From her early days with Nick Jonas to the intense romance with Justin Bieber and finding comfort in the arms of Benny Blanco, Selena’s love life has been a topic of fascination. In this exploration, we delve into Selena Gomez’s dating journey, charting a timeline of her relationships with the men who have sparked the intrigue of her heart.
1. Nick Jonas (2008)
Selena Gomez and Nick Jonas epitomized teenage romance with their adorable affection and close bond. Their relationship blossomed in 2008, sparked by their connection in the Disney Channel world. Speculations swirled as they were spotted together, notably when Gomez sported Jonas’ Elvis Costello t-shirt while skateboarding. Their closeness was further evident when Gomez appeared alongside all three Jonas Brothers at the Disney Channel Games.
While Gomez and Jonas didn’t publicly confirm their romance, their chemistry became undeniable when Gomez starred as Nick’s love interest in the music video for “Burnin’ Up” in June 2008.
An intriguing facet of their story was the simultaneous interest of Gomez’s friend, Miley Cyrus, in Nick Jonas. However, Gomez emphasized in a 2016 interview with W magazine that there was never any conflict between them over Nick. Reflecting on their past, she noted, “We never feuded. We both liked the same guy when we were 16. We are now completely settled in our own lives.”
2. Taylor Lautner (2009)
Following her brief fling with Taylor Lautner in 2009, Selena Gomez added another notable name to her dating roster. Their connection sparked during casual encounters in the lobby of a hotel shared with Kristen Stewart. Gomez recalled to Seventeen magazine, “Kristen was staying in my hotel, he would visit her, so we were constantly running into each other in the lobby — and we ended up meeting.” Their dates consisted of simple outings like lunch, dinner, and bowling, but the constant presence of paparazzi made it challenging to maintain privacy. Gomez reflected, “We literally just wanted to hang out, go bowling and stuff, and it went a little too far, I think. People were getting a little crazy about us.”
Their romance, however, was short-lived, and they parted ways amicably after a few months. Despite the breakup, they remained friends. In the aftermath, Lautner found companionship with Gomez’s close friend Taylor Swift, while Gomez embarked on her next romantic chapter.
3. Justin Bieber (2010-2018)
The romance between Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber stands as one of the most iconic celebrity relationships in pop culture history. Their journey began with a seemingly ordinary ‘pancake’ date at IHOP in Philadelphia in 2010, igniting a whirlwind romance that captivated the world.
Over the course of eight years, their on-and-off relationship was marked by cozy dates, red carpet appearances, intense drama, and the symbolic ‘J’ diamond ring. The moniker ‘Jelena’ became synonymous with celebrity power couples, solidifying their status in 2010.
However, their love story encountered turbulence two years later, leading to their first split in 2012. Blaming their breakup on various factors including Bieber’s behavior and rumors of infidelity, Gomez decided to end things. Speculations swirled that Bieber had cheated on Gomez with his now-wife, Hailey Baldwin.
In 2014, after a brief dalliance with DJ Zedd, Gomez and Bieber reignited their romance, sending media into a frenzy once more. Yet, their reunion was short-lived, ending in November of the same year.
Despite brief reconciliation attempts, their third and final reunion unfolded from November 2017 to March 2018. Throughout their tumultuous relationship, social media played a significant role, with cryptic tweets and nostalgic posts fueling speculation.
Their reunion drew mixed reactions, notably from their mothers. While Bieber’s mother, Pattie Mallette, expressed support for Gomez, Gomez’s mother, Mandy Teefy, voiced her reservations. Family opinions, along with Gomez’s own reflections, ultimately contributed to their final breakup.
Following their split, Bieber quickly reconnected with Baldwin, leading to their engagement and subsequent marriage. The news stirred up considerable social media drama in Hollywood, further fueled by Gomez’s poignant breakup anthem, “Lose You to Love Me.”
Years later, Gomez reflected on her tumultuous relationship with Bieber in her Apple TV+ documentary, acknowledging that their breakup was ultimately a transformative experience for her.
4. Orlando Bloom (2014-2016)
During one of the breaks in her tumultuous relationship with Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez found solace in the company of Orlando Bloom. In April 2014, they were spotted spending time together in Los Angeles, hinting at a potential connection. Then, in May 2016, they were seen getting cozy in Las Vegas, sparking speculation about their relationship status.
However, any budding romance was swiftly dispelled when Orlando Bloom’s girlfriend at the time, Katy Perry, addressed the rumors on Twitter. Perry referred to the dating speculations as “relationship rumors” and dismissed them as a “dumb conspiracy.” Gomez subsequently retweeted Perry’s post, effectively putting an end to the speculation surrounding her relationship with Bloom.
5. Zedd (Early 2015)
In early 2015, Selena Gomez embarked on a musical collaboration with DJ-producer Zedd, sparking rumors of a blossoming romance. Their public appearances together, including leaving a Golden Globes party hand-in-hand and sharing affectionate selfies on social media, fueled speculation among fans.
Gomez’s Instagram post captioned “missing la and this punk, just a little tonight” and Zedd’s screenshot of a video chat with Gomez added to the intrigue. Zedd even made a trip to Atlanta to visit Gomez while she was filming, and they were spotted enjoying a bowling date together.
Their collaboration culminated in the release of “I Want You to Know” in February 2015, with Zedd making a cameo appearance in the music video. Despite the initial excitement surrounding their relationship, it eventually faded away. Reflecting on their time together, Gomez spoke fondly of Zedd, describing their connection as “nice” in an interview with People magazine.
Zedd also shared his perspective on their relationship, expressing frustration over the intense media scrutiny they faced. He revealed that reporters were contacting his parents and friends’ phones were being hacked, leading to a significant intrusion into his personal life. Despite the challenges, he acknowledged Gomez’s global fame and admitted that he underestimated the impact it would have on his own life.
6. Niall Horan (December 2015)
In late 2015, rumors swirled about Selena Gomez possibly dating One Direction member Niall Horan. The pair was spotted together on a date at the Santa Monica pier in December, and reports surfaced of them dancing and sharing a kiss at Jenna Dewan’s 35th birthday party.
However, Gomez quickly dismissed the speculation and firmly placed Horan in the friend zone when asked about their relationship status by Entertainment Tonight. She exclaimed, “Oh my god! No. I love him, I always have. He’s amazing.” With her statement, Gomez made it clear that while she cherished their friendship, any romantic involvement between them was purely speculation.
7. Samuel Krost (2016)
Selena Gomez was briefly linked romantically to Samuel Krost, known as a friend of Gigi Hadid and the booker for the ill-fated Fyre Festival. Their relationship, though short-lived, left a lasting impression on Krost. He confirmed their connection in a rather public manner, Instagramming and then deleting a heartfelt comment on one of Gomez’s pictures.
In the comment, Krost expressed admiration for Gomez, describing her as a genuine person with real emotions. He emphasized the reality of love and urged those feeling discontent in their own love lives to recognize its authenticity. Despite their paths diverging, Krost’s message conveyed his belief in the power of love and his affection for Gomez.
8. Charlie Puth (2016)
Selena was rumoured to be dating and hooking up with her ‘We Don’t Talk Anymore’ collaborator Charlie Puth in March 2016. Gomez and Puth tried to rubbish the dating rumours until the latter in a 2018 interview with Billboard, admitted the relationship and said, “very short-lived, very small, but very impactful. And it really messed me up. I’m trying to put this the best way possible: It wasn’t like I was the only person on her mind. And I think I knew that going in — what I was getting myself into.”
9. The Weeknd (2017)
Selena Gomez and Abel Tesfaye, better known as The Weeknd, sent shockwaves through the internet when they were reportedly caught kissing next to dumpsters in Santa Monica. Their romance quickly escalated, with the duo jetting off to Italy and sharing passionate moments aboard a yacht.
Their relationship reached a milestone when they made their Instagram debut as a couple just in time for Coachella in April 2017. Their glamorous appearance on the Met Gala red carpet further solidified their status as a power couple.
Their social media feeds became filled with adorable pictures of each other, showcasing their affection. During a challenging time for Gomez, as she underwent a kidney transplant in September 2017, The Weeknd reportedly remained a steadfast source of support by her side.
Despite their bond, the couple faced difficulties due to their demanding schedules. With The Weeknd touring and Gomez filming in New York, the strain on their relationship became evident. In October, they decided to part ways, with sources revealing to People magazine that the challenges of distance and conflicting commitments had taken a toll on their relationship.
10. Chris Evans (2021)
This is all speculative but Chris Evans and Selena Gomez briefly dated or perhaps went on a date in late 2021. The duo was spotted leaving a restaurant in Los Angeles, giving breeding ground to dating rumours. Evans also followed Gomez on Instagram around the same time. However, the gossip mill was put to rest once it was confirmed that the Ghosted actor was actually dating Portuguese actor Alba Baptista whom he’s now married to.
11. Drew Taggart (2023)
Selena Gomez found herself at the center of romance rumors once again, this time with The Chainsmokers singer Drew Taggart. Speculation about their relationship began swirling in January 2023 after they were spotted together at a bowling alley in New York City.
As the sightings continued, Gomez took to her Instagram story to address the speculation directly. In a succinct statement, she wrote, “I like being alone too much #iamsingle,” putting an end to the rumors and affirming her single status.
12. Zayn Malik (March 2023)
After setting the record straight about her relationship status, Gomez was spotted with Zayn Malik in March 2023 on a dinner date in N.Y.C. According to a viral TikTok video created by the restaurant hostess, the celebrity duo walked into the establishment ‘hand in hand’ and were seen ‘making out’ a little. However, nothing further grew after this one date/fling for the singers.
Interestingly, Malik was dating Gomez’s friend Gigi Hadid before this and even shares a daughter with her.
13. Benny Blanco (December 2023-now)
Selena Gomez’s current beau is music producer Benny Blanco. Speculation about their relationship began to swirl in December 2023 when Gomez posted a picture on her Instagram story, resting her head on a man’s chest, accompanied by a message expressing her appreciation for her fans.
Gomez essentially confirmed Blanco’s identity as her mystery beau by responding with “Facts” to a post speculating about their relationship. She further fueled rumors by commenting on a fan page, describing Blanco as “my absolute everything in my heart.”
Adding to the speculation, Gomez sported a ring featuring the letter ‘B’ in another Instagram story, hinting at Blanco’s initials.
Their relationship was solidified when the couple made their first public appearance together in January 2024, sitting courtside at a Los Angeles Lakers game. This public outing officially confirmed their relationship, and since then, they’ve been going strong.
Gomez posted a loved-up photo dump on Blanco’s birthday in March 2024 and captioned it, “Happy birthday baby! Your emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent (that blows me away), undeniable humour and loving, kind heart absolutely kill me. I love you. (sic)”
