Selena Gomez, in the midst of a blossoming romance with music producer Benny Blanco, recently opened up about the qualities she values in a partner. The “Hands to Myself” singer shared her insights with Vogue México y Latinoamérica in an interview published on December 21.

Expressing a newfound perspective on love, Selena admitted, “Honestly, I have to start being attracted to the right kind of people.” For the Rare Beauty founder, this means seeking a partner who fosters an environment of self-respect and healthy communication.

“It’s very hard to find someone who can listen to you and genuinely care about you,” she revealed in the interview, conducted prior to her public announcement of the new relationship. “But I know when it happens, it will be great, and I want it to be a healthy connection.”

In a delightful twist of fate, Selena didn’t have to wait long for that connection to materialize. The singer, who playfully teased her single status for months through her music, officially confirmed her romance with Benny Blanco on social media in early December. She shared an affectionate photo of the pair the following week.

Despite being previously linked to high-profile relationships with Justin Bieber and The Weeknd, Selena emphasized that she doesn’t regret her past experiences. “I firmly believe that everything in my life happens for a reason,” she reflected. “I always try to say, ‘What’s the lesson here? I want to learn the lesson and I want to grow from this.’”

Adding a note of resilience, she stated, “I want to experience what it’s like to get through those moments that are really difficult.”

For those enchanted by their budding romance, the tale of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco unfolds like a love song, inviting us to appreciate the diverse love lives of our favorite singers.